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Saguaro
11-09-2007, 01:18 PM
BAGHDAD, Iraq (CNN) -- The head of Iraq's main humanitarian group said an 18-year-old approached him with a baby suffering from leukemia. The desperate mother said she'd do "anything" for treatment for her child -- and then offered herself up for sex.

Said Ismail Hakki breaks down in tears as he recalls that story. Leukemia can be treatable to a degree in much of the world, but not in Iraq. The baby died two months later.

"It shook me like hell," said Hakki, the president of the Iraqi Red Crescent. "All my life I've been a surgeon. I've seen blood; I've seen death. That never shook me -- none whatsoever. But when I see the suffering of those people, that really shook me."

The plight of Iraq's children is nearing epidemic proportions, he said, with mothers and fathers abandoning their children "because they're becoming a liability." The parents don't do it out of convenience, they do it out of desperation.

"When you become so desperate, you tend to just throw everything up and go," Hakki said.

"Every time I look at those children, I ask myself first, 'What crime have those children committed?'"

Hakki says Red Crescent has the monumental task of treating and feeding more than 1.6 million children under the age of 12 who have become homeless in their own country. That's roughly 70 percent of the estimated 2.3 million Iraqis who are homeless inside Iraq. How to help

With 95,000 volunteers and 5,000 employees, the Iraqi Red Crescent is the last line of defense for the country's poor, sick and displaced. They try to blend in as best they can, with Shiites, Sunnis and Kurds working in the neighborhoods distinct to their ethnicities.

Six employees of the Iraqi Red Crescent have been killed over the last four years. Eight have been wounded, including six left disabled by the severity of their wounds.

Hakki says the spike in numbers of abandoned children is especially alarming, the result of sectarian violence and drastic socio-economic problems. The majority of parents in Iraq, he says, leave their children with a single relative who often has about 20 to 30 children to look after. Some parents just leave their kids altogether.

Many of the families are living in areas without basic needs, like water and electricity, and there are no jobs available. "It's a desperate situation," he said. "Children are becoming a liability for both the father and the mother."

The greatest concern is the ripple effect it will have in the long term -- an entire generation lacking basic life skills, surviving with no education, no income and no families.

"The trauma of what's happening to those children is enormous," he said. "If somebody is injured by a bullet or shrapnel, it takes a week or two and he's fine. ... The psycho-social injury is pretty deep and can take months, if not years, to heal.

"That's the task -- the mammoth task -- the Iraq Red Crescent is facing."

The group gets some financial support from the central government. It's also negotiating with the U.S. Embassy, he said, to see if it can offer financial aid. But funds are low.

Just recently, the group closed 18 camps for the winter and is trying to house those thousands of people in abandoned government buildings.

At a waiting room at an Iraqi Red Crescent treatment center in Baghdad's Mansour district, CNN came across several young children in desperate need of care. But they were among the lucky ones -- if that term can even be applied -- because their parents remain with them.

Baha was with his father in a market when someone opened fire on U.S. soldiers. When the soldiers fired back, shrapnel hit his eye. Despite what happened, this brave boy still goes to that same market. "I'm not afraid," he said.

Across the room, 3-year-old Saja lightened the mood in the room. "Iraqis, we are still brothers!" she sang.

She giggled, laughed and darted around, bringing smiles to all who saw her. Yet, she couldn't see most of what was around her. She's blind in one eye and losing sight in the other -- the result of shoddy medical care.

Her father, Dia'a, said he heard about the Iraqi Red Crescent from television and others who had been treated here. He said he can't afford to travel outside the country for medical treatment for his girl. This clinic, he said, has given him "a ray of hope that I had lost."

He, too, expressed despair over the plight of Iraq's youngest generation.

"Our children are suffering. All they talk about is weapons and bombs," he said. "They are children. We are older; our hair turns gray. What happens to them hearing all the explosions and bombs?

"We can't make them feel better because we are down."

That's a sentiment that haunts the head of the Iraqi Red Crescent.

"There are times I get up in the middle of the night and I say, 'Oh my God, how are we going to solve it? God help me to help those kids!'"

http://www.cnn.com/2007/WORLD/meast/11/09/iraq.children/index.html

issac the dragon
11-09-2007, 03:19 PM
The real problem goes back to the parents and what has been done to them. They are so mentally and psychologically damaged, they cannot cope with anything. Protecting one's children is one of the most basic instincts of people. I can't imagine the pain and suffering that caused those people to behave like that. Bush is a creeping monster doing far worse than murdering people. He is murdering their souls.

Wabash
11-09-2007, 04:18 PM
Yet....many hundreds of people are returning to Iraq, after leaving before the invasion...many stores are reopening in Bagdad and elsewhere in the region...the conflict has been diminishing by the day as the Sunni and other people spurn the idealogy of Islamofacisim and get on with rebuilding their lives and their country......

The Demos, especially Harry Reid, invested in defeat, have egg on their faces.

issac the dragon
11-09-2007, 06:06 PM
:bullshit

Trueblue
11-09-2007, 07:02 PM
:bullshit

Ditto that.

Iraq, what a fabulous success. It's too sickening a lie to laugh at.

Semantics
11-09-2007, 09:25 PM
My heart just broke. :(

Saguaro
11-09-2007, 09:26 PM
Yet....many hundreds of people are returning to Iraq, after leaving before the invasion...many stores are reopening in Bagdad and elsewhere in the region...the conflict has been diminishing by the day as the Sunni and other people spurn the idealogy of Islamofacisim and get on with rebuilding their lives and their country......

The Demos, especially Harry Reid, invested in defeat, have egg on their faces.

Where else are they going to go ?

Trueblue
11-17-2007, 08:12 AM
Yet....many hundreds of people are returning to Iraq, after leaving before the invasion...many stores are reopening in Bagdad and elsewhere in the region...the conflict has been diminishing by the day as the Sunni and other people spurn the idealogy of Islamofacisim and get on with rebuilding their lives and their country......

The Demos, especially Harry Reid, invested in defeat, have egg on their faces.

You do realize that Syria closed the border to Iraqi refugees, don't you?

issac the dragon
11-17-2007, 05:30 PM
He doesn't realize anything if he doesn't hear it from Ditto head or on Fox news. General Petraus' assistant just said the other day that the reduction in deaths was just luck and had nothing to do with the surge. But then, what would he know. He's in Iraq and I'm sure he is stupid as hell.

Wabash
11-17-2007, 06:45 PM
:bullshit

No...it isn't!

Ditto that.



Iraq, what a fabulous success. It's too sickening a lie to laugh at.
Ditto..it isn't! Only when you listen to biased liberals!

My heart just broke. :(
Why?

Where else are they going to go ?
They can stay where they are at...in Syria, Egypt. Iran, Europe and the US and any other place they have travelled!
You do realize that Syria closed the border to Iraqi refugees, don't you?
Yes, of course, but thousands were already in that country before the border was closed!

He doesn't realize anything if he doesn't hear it from Ditto head or on Fox news. General Petraus' assistant just said the other day that the reduction in deaths was just luck and had nothing to do with the surge. But then, what would he know. He's in Iraq and I'm sure he is stupid as hell.

Ya, and you are full of it! Plus, your attention span is very limited, old age maybe? I've told you all many times here, that I don't watch Fox News. Rush is Right most of the time...I mean VERY right!
However, what I posted above is coming from CBS nightly news, ABC radio or NBC news.....
The Surge has worked and continues to work, bombings and killings are way down and thousands are returning.
If that aide to Petrraus said it was luck...it's DAMN GOOD LUCK!
You Doom and Gloom folks better smartin up!

issac the dragon
11-17-2007, 07:18 PM
It's already been sold. Lock, stock, and barrel. And Bush was the one who did it. How bad does it have to get before even you will admit it?

Saguaro
11-17-2007, 08:46 PM
No...it isn't!


Ditto..it isn't! Only when you listen to biased liberals!


Why?


They can stay where they are at...in Syria, Egypt. Iran, Europe and the US and any other place they have travelled!

Yes, of course, but thousands were already in that country before the border was closed!



Ya, and you are full of it! Plus, your attention span is very limited, old age maybe? I've told you all many times here, that I don't watch Fox News. Rush is Right most of the time...I mean VERY right!
However, what I posted above is coming from CBS nightly news, ABC radio or NBC news.....
The Surge has worked and continues to work, bombings and killings are way down and thousands are returning.
If that aide to Petrraus said it was luck...it's DAMN GOOD LUCK!
You Doom and Gloom folks better smartin up!

Wabash, since they are not citizens of those countries, they cannot get a job, that is the way it is in those countries. If ya don't believe me, look it up. They have no other choice but to go back to Iraq

Trueblue
11-18-2007, 11:03 AM
Yes, of course, but thousands were already in that country before the border was closed!

You have missed the point.

Ya, and you are full of it! Plus, your attention span is very limited, old age maybe? I've told you all many times here, that I don't watch Fox News. Rush is Right most of the time...I mean VERY right!
However, what I posted above is coming from CBS nightly news, ABC radio or NBC news.....
The Surge has worked and continues to work, bombings and killings are way down and thousands are returning.
If that aide to Petrraus said it was luck...it's DAMN GOOD LUCK!
You Doom and Gloom folks better smartin up!

Issac's attention span now beats yours on your best day.

As for the rest, you are not in touch with reality.